Sunday, November 4, 2012

Bear One Another's Burdens

Bear one another's burdens
That they may be light.
Mourn with those that mourn.
Comfort those that stand in need of comfort.

In the tradition of Mormon poets like William W. Phelps and Orson F. Whitney I have made my paraphrasing of Mosiah 18: 8-9 into a kind of mantra. It's very important doctrine because it's part of my covenant with God from my baptism. What I really love about this is the special kind of intimacy and deep friendship that comes from sharing burdens, mourning together. This is one of the most Christ-like, God-like things I can imagine.

Real friendship is proven in hard times. Friends have fun together, play together and laugh together. But they should also cry together and struggle together. And the blessing is imbedded right there in the counsel: bear one another's burdens that they may be light. Just sharing the burden helps.

There are a lot of burdens to be shared and made light. In the words of Jeffy R. Holland: “We have neighbors to bless, children to protect, the poor to lift up, and the truth to defend. We have wrongs to make right, truths to share, and good to do. In short, we have a life of devoted discipleship to give in demonstrating our love of the Lord. We can’t quit and we can’t go back." [1]

So I repeat the mantra from Mosiah 18:8-9 regularly to keep my mind and heart right with God. This is what we need to do.


1 comment:

  1. In my experience Mormons are terrible at comforting and mourning with those that mourn. In an alternate sphere it might work. Mormons think that as long as they go to church every Sunday, have a Temple recommend, pay tithing and say a few weekly prayers then they are living the gospel. Members have become Sunday Christians, which is why the church is not progressing in new doctrines and teachings.
    I lost a child and the members were horrible. I expected awful treatment from non-LDS, and was shocked by the behavior of the members towards me and my family. So I can say with a certainty the members do not listen to or obey what is taught by the leaders. They pick and choose what to live. They also pick and choose who to serve in the Wards. If you are not in the right clique then forget about getting help with anything. Church is like high school and I wish I didn't have to attend but I do because it is required. I am glad to hear that at least one member (you) will remember Mosiah and try to live it. Thank you.